Hello to all of you Beautiful People!
How was your Easter-yeah I know it has already been a week, just wanted to make sure you guys didn't eat to many chocolate Easter eggs(-; but I guess, there are always exceptions to the rule.
My exception was my Birthday weekend, I had such a blast with my friends, we had yummy Thai food and a great all night out in Chicago! Girls we need to do that more often(-;
Anyway, I wanted to talk about something that is really important to your health and your overall well being.
Things, people or whatever you want to call it, that are out of your control. Some events in our lives are just not in our hands. Sometimes we can plan, pray, hope and do all the right things, but if the universe has a different plan for us, we can cry, scream and punch as much as we want to, some things will never change. Some people will never change!
There are number of instances in life when people hurt us, either with their actions or with their words. There may be times when they did not really mean it, but it just happened that you perceived them in a different way.However, there are certain people who seem to be out there with a mission to make your life miserable. They will do everything possible to make you feel bad, they will criticize you, humiliate you, abuse you and what not!
It has nothing to do with you, they just don't know any better, and you are not the one that is going to change their behaviour! Don't stick around to see if you are the ONE that can transform a person. Every single person should change for one reason only and that is for themselves! If your husband, friend, mom, brother or whoever else constantly hurts and makes you feel miserable with their actions WALK AWAY!
Now I am not saying that you should just give up on people that you care about, as soon as there is a problem, but if you struggled for years and somebody you love keeps on treating you like garbage-WALK AWAY-FORGIVE AND MOVE ON!
You will only hurt yourself if you stick around- so get out and the most important thing is FORGIVENESS.
The only person being hurt if you don't forgive is YOU. Holding negative feelings against someone and never forgiving them causes you to become negative. This single event leads to a shift in your way of thinking. You might become pessimistic and feel like everyone else is out to get you. You might build a wall so nobody else can get close enough to hurt you again.
The most important reason you should forgive is to allow the healing process to begin. When you are finally able to release what happened in the past and make amends with that person within yourself, you will be able to finally move forward in your own life. You’ll feel as though a huge weight and burden has been lifted from your shoulders.
Being big enough to forgive someone for something bad that has happened isn’t for them. Forgiveness is for you.
Love and Cookies
Jennifer
How was your Easter-yeah I know it has already been a week, just wanted to make sure you guys didn't eat to many chocolate Easter eggs(-; but I guess, there are always exceptions to the rule.
My exception was my Birthday weekend, I had such a blast with my friends, we had yummy Thai food and a great all night out in Chicago! Girls we need to do that more often(-;
Anyway, I wanted to talk about something that is really important to your health and your overall well being.
Things, people or whatever you want to call it, that are out of your control. Some events in our lives are just not in our hands. Sometimes we can plan, pray, hope and do all the right things, but if the universe has a different plan for us, we can cry, scream and punch as much as we want to, some things will never change. Some people will never change!
There are number of instances in life when people hurt us, either with their actions or with their words. There may be times when they did not really mean it, but it just happened that you perceived them in a different way.However, there are certain people who seem to be out there with a mission to make your life miserable. They will do everything possible to make you feel bad, they will criticize you, humiliate you, abuse you and what not!
It has nothing to do with you, they just don't know any better, and you are not the one that is going to change their behaviour! Don't stick around to see if you are the ONE that can transform a person. Every single person should change for one reason only and that is for themselves! If your husband, friend, mom, brother or whoever else constantly hurts and makes you feel miserable with their actions WALK AWAY!
Now I am not saying that you should just give up on people that you care about, as soon as there is a problem, but if you struggled for years and somebody you love keeps on treating you like garbage-WALK AWAY-FORGIVE AND MOVE ON!
You will only hurt yourself if you stick around- so get out and the most important thing is FORGIVENESS.
The only person being hurt if you don't forgive is YOU. Holding negative feelings against someone and never forgiving them causes you to become negative. This single event leads to a shift in your way of thinking. You might become pessimistic and feel like everyone else is out to get you. You might build a wall so nobody else can get close enough to hurt you again.
The most important reason you should forgive is to allow the healing process to begin. When you are finally able to release what happened in the past and make amends with that person within yourself, you will be able to finally move forward in your own life. You’ll feel as though a huge weight and burden has been lifted from your shoulders.
Being big enough to forgive someone for something bad that has happened isn’t for them. Forgiveness is for you.
Love and Cookies
Jennifer
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