Choosing ''Me'' before ''We''

Wow I am super excited-will be going to Vegas over the weekend!
Fun, Sun and no worries and you know what they say, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas!

Not that I have anything to hide..




This post is for all my girlfriends and women who should never settle for less, no matter what!!!!




I want to talk a little bit about women and relationships.
Women are pretty obsessed about relationships and about finding ''The One''.

Our society puts a lot of pressure on us, to find the right guy by a certain age, the quicker the better, get married, have children and live happily ever after! Oh the fairytale about living happily ever after.

Movies, books and fairytales have really done a job on us! So many little girls dream about ''Prince Charming'' coming to rescue them from the bad world- so they can run of and have a happy life until death do them part! Nobody ever told them that there might be some big battles on the way to happily ever after, that love can not conquer it all and that a man can never rescue them from themselves.

So, what is the most important thing, before anything! You have to love yourself! Really love yourself. Be in love with yourself, build the life that you ever dreamed of, accept yourself with all your flaws and imperfections and know that you will never be able to attract a healthy, strong man and have a fulfilling relationship if you are not truly happy. Misery loves company! Why do we all fall for men that are straight up crazy, disrespectful and full of it- because we think it is better to have that kind of man, than no man at all and feeling lonely! We don't know our own worth.
Really-wake up princess, life is to short to spend years in misery with a man who will never give you what you truly deserve.

It all starts with self love and knowing what you want in life and in a man. You should have your core values in place! Core values???Yes, you should really know what you want in a man, and I am not talking about tall, dark and handsome kind of values.They suck and won't get you anywhere past the bedroom..
Does he have to be respectful and family oriented? Would you like to travel the world with him?
Should he always have a positive outlook on life?
No matter what it is, write it down, read it out loud, everything and stick to it. You don't believe that the perfect guy for you exists? Get over yourself, because if you don't you will only end up in a lousy, misery relationship that will end up in heartbreak sooner or later.If you belive that you can only get losers, that is what you will end up with. Don't settle, you deserve only the best!

Oh and stop worrying about if the next guy might be ''Mr Right", just enjoy the right now, who cares if you will marry him or not, all that matters is that it feels right, RIGHT NOW!

Go on with your life, never make a man your life, especially if you are not married to him. Have fun dating, doing you, experiencing everything the world has to over. Make guys part of your life, but don't make your happiness depend on them. One more thing-please don't have sex with any man that comes along, you are worth more than that Ladies!! You are precious in every way, don't just give it away-it is usually not worth it.

I really want to tell all the beautiful, amazing, strong and independent women out there, that you don't need a man in your life to be whole! You do not need anybody to complete you! You need to complete yourself.What is going to happen if that person will be out of your life? You will only be half a human- I don't think so.''You Complete Me'' is BS.

Focus on YOU-YOUR LIFE, passion, friends, family, carrier, be compassionate, give back, have fun, go out, travel, meet people, pray, laugh, cry, date, do whatever you want to do and whatever makes you truly happy.

But be completely honest with yourself, really listen to your gut feeling, your inner guide, the voice that comes from deep within. Don't push that feeling away! There is a reason why GOD gave us our inner guidance-the next time you have it follow it, because there is a big reason for it.
I wish I would have followed my inner voice a lot sooner!

The right man will come when the time is right, when you are truly happy with your own life, when you feel complete and usually when you don't expect it. If you are your own best friend, your own lover and your own spirit you will attract amazing people that will enrich your life and join you in this crazy journey called life.



Love and Cookies

Jennifer